Office Attire on a Shoe String Budget

Hello. Happy spring! It still is rather cold and dark here most days however I spotted several places that had put out barrels or pots of daffodils and pansies so sights of spring are on their way!  I look forward to changing the types of posts in the near future to more about small shops in the Village or Brooklyn and putting some focus on what other artists or shops owners are doing. With the numerous snow storms we had here my desire to run around and go places sort of bit the dust but it is alive and well again as spring is approaching!

Thrifted blazer,  new shirt was a gift, and a new skirt

Thrifted blazer, new shirt was a gift, and a new skirt

I wanted to write about office attire since it is a necessity for so many of us. The requirement to look professional and keep up with basic trends can get quite costly unless one knows how to work around the system. Or we can make a conscious decision to wear as many classic looks as possible to minimize the extent of what we have to change as time goes along. That is usually what I prefer to do. I like to wear colorful pieces when I can as too much grey and black can get just down right dark. In New York more people wear a lot of dark colors due to having small closets or often only one closet. Even when faced with challenges such as that one can add colorful scarves or accessories to brighten things up. I am going to do another post soon about wearing scarves in spring and summer. Scarves add a classy European flair to basic outfits.

My goal here is to cover the basics and inspire others to know that they can cut down their costs for office attire with some time and effort by shopping at thrift shops, vintage shops or garage sales.

Also one can acquire a few pieces from a friend or parent that has retired recently if they are the same size and have similar taste in apparel. I have several pieces my mother gave me once she retired that I wear regularly. Nowadays many people hold clothing swaps with their friends to exchange clothing. This is a very good idea since any clothing further down the chain of mass consumerism and production is good for our environment. Every time an item is reused or recycled, or upcycled it is beneficial for our planet.

Recycling a thrift store bought blouse, skirt and shoes

I also have a sweater that I traded for at Buffalo Exchange that I wear sometimes to work and a vintage shirt dress that I found at Beacon’s Closet for fifteen dollars. Other times I have been to Beacon’s Closet and traded for items. Emily, my daughter will be writing a piece soon for the blog about buying and selling at Buffalo Exchange. She used to work at one of their shops so she knows more about this than I do.

Thrifted dress.  I altered the sleeves.

Thrifted dress. I altered the sleeves.

There are several Etsy shops for instance that have lovely vintage suits for about sixty dollars that are generally made better than the suits one can buy now. I had to give away my vintage suits that I had since my waist is not as tiny as it was when I was younger. Right now I don’t wear a lot of suits but I do have a few classic blazers, one of which is a Ralph Lauren that I acquired at a garage sale in Boulder, Co. from a woman who sold it to me for a mere five dollars. She had a beautiful old mansion up on Mapleton Hill but she was out there doing a good service by reselling her clothing and houseware items. This lovely navy linen blazer was practically new when I bought it and a staple that I often wore to interviews when I was job hunting.  I have other nice blazers than I spent less than fifteen dollars each on that I bought at thrift shops. The key to finding quality pieces that you like at thrift shops is going often enough to slowly find what you need. There are many times I go to thrift shops and buy nothing. One thing I have found that helps is to shop in neighborhood that wealthier people live in. If you can find a nice thrift shop that has quality pieces and sales, or affordable prices on a regular basis than you have found a spot to return to time and time again. Many of the thrift shops in Manhattan now have prices up to $300 or more for certain designer clothing pieces. I can’t afford that price range, however I know which racks in which stores have the pieces I can afford and those are where I look.

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Before of a dress I bought at a garage sale and took off the ruffle around neckline.

There have been times when I landed a new job and suddenly needed several pieces at once of office wear. In times like that generally I would go to a thrift shop such as Unique in downtown Brooklyn where they have a huge shop that is about the size of a small department shop. They have a deal where if you shop on Thursdays and have a shop card you get twenty percent off. A place such as this generally requires more time to slowly weed through to find what you like but it can really pay off in savings.

Same dress later on with a tank top underneath.

Same dress later on with a tank top underneath.

For a more casual office day with a nice sweater.

Very soon I am going to do a post about garage “sailing” and how to successfully navigate the seas of shopping at garage sales. I have found many apparel items through the years at garage sales. There are times I want to rework the pieces. This was the case with a Maggy London dress I acquired that was a serious deal however I did not like all the ruffles around the neck line. Therefore I carefully undid the stitches and pulled out the ruffles around there then carefully sewed some black lace over the neck line to cover the opening I had created in the seams there. Now the dress is lovely and I did not mind the little bit of ruffles around the short sleeves so I left those attached.

Picture by Angela Delacroix

Picture by Angela Delacroix (Vintage shirt dress)

Each of the clothing items in this post that I bought thrifted or at a garage sale cost me no more than fifteen dollars each. As a matter of fact, the only items that cost that much were the black polka dotted Banana Republic dress and the vintage shirt dress.   Even my Muji camel colored skirt, which I bought new was less than fifteen dollars since I bought it on sale. In terms of foot wear both the red shoes (Kenneth Cole shoes) in this post and the brown John Fluevog’s were thrifted. Both shoes ran me twenty five dollars each pair.

Red thrifted Ralph Lauren blazer

Due to the arthritis in my feet mostly I wear new shoes and they have to be good quality shoes.   I can’t wear sandals until I have surgery on my foot, which I am not quite ready for. In the summer I usually wear Muji ankle socks with my Mary Jane shoes.. Muji has these dropped yarn socks (reused yarn) that are a sneaker sock, or they also have low ankle socks that I like to wear. I have a very tiny ankle so I need a strap to hold on my shoes. I end up wearing Dansko shoes mostly since they provide sufficient protection from the concrete on New York City streets. In the winter I wear boots. Do be aware that when you buy thrifted shoes or boots you can inherit some of the previous owner’s foot problems. Therefore if you see that the shoe is deformed from a bunion for instance don’t buy it. I found this out about three years ago and I never donate my shoes or boots anymore. I wouldn’t wish my foot troubles on anyone. I have found nice shoes by thrifting. One has to be particular about it but there are nice ones to be found.

Thrifted John Flevog's

Thrifted John Flevog’s

I won’t wear hose in the summer unless I am in a place that is so conservative that I have to, or it is a special occasion so I need to dress up. On the occasions when I do where hose in the spring for instance if it is a really warm day I prefer tiny fish net patterns so there is some breathing room! I generally buy my hose at a discount store in Manhattan although on occasion I have bought stocking at Muji since they have nice colors that I can’t necessarily buy elsewhere. They had a café au lait color for instance that was very nice.

I also like Muji’s clothing since they have some organic cotton and linen apparel. I generally end up shopping their sales if I buy their clothing. That is where I found my camel colored skirt in the picture with the Ralph Lauren blazer. I found that skirt and a navy one when they had a sixty percent off sale. At a time such as that, if I can I will buy two.

I find a lot of women prefer to wear slacks to work. I personally prefer dresses or skirts unless it is very cold. I rarely have ever bought slacks through thrifts shops just because I find it difficult to find pieces due to my size and the fact that there are times that my weight fluctuates. So for slacks I prefer to buy Uniqlo leggings. They call them leggings but they have these wonderfully comfortable leggings that have an adjustable waist with a drawstring in there and they cost usually either twenty or twenty five dollars each pair. I like the fact that they encourage their shoppers to return the items once they have finished with them and then they send them to third world countries so that others can reuse them. Plus their focus as a shop is to sell classic clothing that they know their shoppers will want to wear for a long time. Many of their shoppers buy from them to avoid trends and mass consumerism in the hopes of turning to enjoying classic looks at reasonable prices instead. They have most of their items in numerous colors so it makes it easy to buy what you like.

Anyway I mix and match my new, thrifted or vintage pieces and this is how I end up with an affordable wardrobe of office attire. I also feel that by wearing some thrifted items and vintage ones I find unique pieces that I enjoy that not everyone else will have. Plus I can wear pieces that fit my personality such as floral blouses that are not necessarily what general office attire is. If I am in a place where I feel sufficiently comfortable to be myself, which I prefer anyway then I wear those items. I feel it is important to wear my unique items since one is happier when they look like themselves and wear what they enjoy wearing. Plus when you do it you allow others the same freedom of expression.

I hope you enjoyed this post and are also enjoying the arrival of spring! I will have another post for you very soon! Forgive me for my recent getting behind. I just had too many things going on at once.

 

 

 All material written and photos taken by: © Marilyn Lavender, 2015.  “All Rights Reserved.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

My Three Crocheted Owl Families

I crocheted these owls when I was burying myself in crocheting for a year awhile back. I have been saving getting to this post but I ran into a bout of fatigue, caused by eating some healthy foods that were not so good for my thyroid. So now I am trying to get back on track, although I am still a bit exhausted, so I am basically lying low. Kind of like the story of Brer Rabbit when he was hiding in the bushes. I have been busy with a full time temporary position, that possibly will go to hire and my plate is rather full at this moment.

My mother is very fond of owls. Therefore I got the idea to crochet her a family of owl figures. I did it by eye, without a pattern. The parents take so much time! I added felt backings on them and hand stitched the edges. After that I did a mother and daughter owl for my daughter, Emily. Later on I did another family of owls for a friend. The children do not take quite as long as the parents, since they are much smaller. Plus I did not crochet their eyes since they are so small. I like all of the owls but I particularly like the little one with a Mohawk hair style. That is the little camel colored one.  They are stuffed with polyester fiberfill.

I was going through a really rough time when I started crocheting almost daily. It broke everything down to one stitch at a time. It really did soothe my soul and I have to say when I stopped crocheting every day for a few months it was difficult again. I now seem to have a better balance going on so I do not feel like I have to crochet. I would like to do more crocheting at some point. I think it is very relaxing and really keeps one occupied on long flights. It also is great while waiting for doctor appointments if they tend to keep one waiting a long time. So far I haven’t crocheted any other animals and I have never done an animal by a pattern. I am not sure I have ever done any crocheting by pattern really.  I have listened to and watched videos and under those circumstances I did what they said. Actually reading a pattern and crocheting from it would be a learning curve for me. My heart and hook lead me to crochet these owls and several scarves. Of course there were a couple of times I crocheted myself into an idea I did not know how to really do and had to unravel and simplify. All in all it was fun.

Well I hope you like my little owls. They aren’t perfect, yet neither are we. I will hopefully get another post out within a few days after I continue to try to focus on getting my energy back to normal.

crocheted owl families

crocheted owl families

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Pictures from Boulder, Ny etc 252

 

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All material written and photos taken by: © Marilyn Lavender, 2015.  “All Rights Reserved.”

My Inspiration to Start This Blog

I wanted to write a post about how I became inspired to start this blog. In the fall of 2013 my daughter and I went to Portland, Oregon for several days. My daughter, Emily had been telling me about Portland for years and finally it just seemed like the time was right. We made arrangements to stay with a friend while we were there and we had a great time.

I felt like I was twenty five again for the few days I was there. The shops, art and music scene reminded me of Greenwich Village and Soho, in New York in the eighties. There were so many small business owners with unique shops and a creative vibe was so very alive there. I was also struck by the experience of being in a place that more than any other place was a reflection of my personality. That was a feeling that hit me even before I had the chance to really get around. Therefore I was very excited to be there and we set out walking long distances pretty much every day that we were there.

There were numerous vintage shops in Portland and my favorite was the House of Vintage. It was so large it was as if we were in a department store for just vintage! The store had fifty five vendors spread throughout 13,000 feet. It was a really fun experience to see all the various vendors sections and explore. We also went to Powell’s City of Books which is a huge book shop. I found a copy of Cut Up Couture about upcycling there and looked at several other books about upcycling. We went to a large craft fair and I also saw several vendors there selling upcycled clothing. I was so incredibly inspired by all the art, cafes, and wide open space it was just wonderful.

 

I wanted to make sure we got to go to Japanese Botanical Garden so one day we took a bus, then hiked up to that.  It was beautiful and relaxing to be there. We also went to the forest one afternoon with our friend Sarah. I had never seen such a mystical looking forest! I had been in forest in Colorado, New York, Vermont and other places in Europe such as Germany, France and Italy but I had never seen a forest like this! The sides of the trails were so steep and full of moss and long branches with sharp scraggly branches reaching down, also covered in moss. I felt as if we had entered a mystical land, like something I had only seen in movies. Now I know what my friends meant when through the years they had said I had to go far out west and see the trees and forest. I was in awe of the lush beauty. One of the pictures here is of Emily sitting in a large tree trunk in the forest there.

Anyway after our vacation there I was so full of creative energy I could barely contain myself. I threw myself into upcycling projects as often as I could. I had already been crocheting like mad for about a year and I have always been very creative but somehow  I got the idea that I should start a blog. I didn’t even read blogs regularly. I just felt I had things I wanted to express and through the years people have always noticed I have had a knack for knowing how to find nice clothing on a real shoe string budget. So amidst my excitement about the trip to Portland, Oregon and all this creative motivation that came as a result of the trip the idea was born. I also wanted to express myself since I really like to be real about sharing my interest in shopping at thrift shops, garage sales, antique or vintage shops, etc… I have been told in the past that “Oh, you should just let people think you got that new” by some people and I just don’t relate to that. I see nothing wrong with sharing that I happily found something further down the chain from mass production, that was perused and I am not only happy but proud to give that item a longer life. I also know from past experience that shopping this way allows me the opportunity, when my work is steady to travel a bit and visit my family, which is spread out all over the country. As my mother has often said “In our family we are more concerned with when are we going to buy our next plane ticket!”

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Actually I learned many of my thrifty ways from my mother. When my parents were saving to buy a house when I was fifteen was the first time I was ever told we needed to buy some of our clothes at a thrift shop for a while. Once we moved into the house my mother woke us up at five or six am so we could go out and help her look for furniture on the day the trucks came by to gather other people’s discards. We helped our mother haul home many items. She bought antiques at fairs or markets and brought them home and refurbished them. Through the years, even after my mother became head of her department at work she still would go to the thrift shop to buy certain things. I learned a lot watching her and I am thankful she taught me those things. As a result I go through my life buying certain things new and many others I prefer to see what I can find through thrifting or buying at vintage or antique shops instead. I find it also keep things fun and more original.

My grandparents were all creative people also. I learned a lot from them and inherited their love of handmade items and crafts. My ancestors were farmers until my grandparent’s generation and then my grandparents became engineers, carpenters and sales people. Both of my grandmothers loved to sew and my mother sewed a lot when I was very young.

I also wanted to be a voice to encourage people to develop their own style and be unique. Life really is more fun when we are true to ourselves and reflect that in our own style. So much of the time we have to go to work and conform to the norm. Yet especially in our own free time, it is important to keep our uniqueness and celebrate it.

Much of the inspiration for the blog also comes from my love for nature and concern for the environment. It comes from the trees, creeks and mountains. From the silence that nature speaks and the ground which celebrates when we till the soil and plant with nurturing care seeds that grow and bloom in time. It comes from the songs of birds that are joyful when spring arrives. When I lived in Boulder, Colorado, I saw animals of the wild pretty much every day. Rabbits scurried around the grassy lawns and it was not uncommon to come upon deer while walking, hiking or even driving. I once came upon a family of deer while walking down from a hike. Making eye contact with a mother deer while she stands with her children behind her is a beautiful thing. I had to silently convey to her that I would yield and cross the road once the traffic passed, so that she and her family might continue on the side of the road back to the mountains. I saw raccoons daily as they often ran from one corner to another, or hid behind the trees and bushes at the end of our apartment complex’s open grassy area. I saw foxes, hawks, crows, gecko’s, salamanders and many other animals. I once saw a fox which ran out as I was driving and when he passed he looked back at me with mischief in his eye, showing me the egg he had stolen as if to say “Look what I got!” After all those years of living there I came to really care about preserving the environment, not only for myself and other people, but for them as well. Grey wolves, for instance are constantly under threat due to congressional debates that could mean the end of protection for them as an endangered species. Maintaining open spaces for animals to live and thrive is not only healthy for them but for our environment as well. The wolves have a role in our ecosystem and therefore supporting them is supporting our environment. I am a big fan of Defenders of Wildlife, a nonprofit that is concerned about speaking for the animals, since they cannot speak for themselves.

As the writer, Elizabeth Cline brings up the topic of mass consumerism in her book ‘Overdressed’: The High Cost of Cheap Fashion, and that there is a point when many of us feel we need a change. To get away from the mass consumerism that has become so common in the US. I realized I had kind of started to get sucked into the frenzy. I wanted to back up, slow down and really be more aware of buying less, buying better quality and making sure I removed myself from that consumerism, mass consumption frenetic energy. I seriously cut down what I buy, am more aware of how I buy it and enjoy upcycling items when I can. I wanted to share and express the joy in doing this. I also watched a video called the Story of Stuff which is available on YouTube. I had found it through Eco-Cycle, a Boulder, Colorado site but it is on YouTube and if you would like to watch it, it explains the cycle of mass production and really assist in making one more conscious of what is going on behind the scenes of mass consumerism.

I don’t know how many of you have seen the work of an artist named Gregg Segal. He is a photographer who photographed people with a week’s worth of their own trash. He also photographed himself and his family with their own trash. These photos are so thought provoking. It really is something to think about what we consume and toss.I just added one of his pictures below.  For more either go to Flickr or this article has several: http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2014/07/08/gregg_segal_photographs_people_with_a_week_s_worth_of_their_trash_in_his.html

Several of you have asked me how I technically started the blog and about my theme. I chose TD Persona theme, which is a WordPress theme. I had no idea how to set up a blog however I found Court Tuttle’s videos very helpful on getting started. Here is a link to his site: http://www.theblogbuilders.com/how-to-start-a-blog/?gclid=CKHggZOf8rsCFUtp7AodPgwAfQ

Other than that I have used the free WordPress videos and YouTube. So far it has worked out fine and I believe that using Blue host as a host has helped.

Well I hope you enjoyed this post and for quite a while I felt like I was blogging to just a few friends and family members. Since I know I have a larger audience now I wanted to share with you my thoughts on how I became inspired to start this blog. I appreciate all of you who stop by regularly to read the posts and share them with your friends or family members.

 

 

 

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Picture from Flickr- Paul is the photographer

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The wolf photo by Paul and Gregg Segal’s environmental photo of people with their trash.

Red Thrifted Lace Dress

I found this lovely dress at a Goodwill shop on Fulton Street in Bedford Stuyvesant, Brooklyn. I am always looking at the Anthropologie catalogue and admiring the dresses; however at the price for this new I wouldn’t have been able to afford it. I am of course thrilled that I didn’t have to just dream of having a dress like that! I bought it during a January sale and got what we call “a screaming deal.” The dress is in great condition too. The designer is Moulinette Souers. Burgundies and deep reds are my favorite color. My apartment has lots of burgundy in it as well. My circulation is a bit slow since I had scoliosis when I was young, so from what I understand of color therapy and the chakras having the color red around me, while seeing it on a regular basis, is good for my circulation. Therefore I tend to gravitate towards it.

I also found a pretty vintage soft brown dress for my daughter. I have been looking for a dress like this for myself, with an open collar but not finding it. This dress is so tiny; Emily will fit into it just fine.   I need to do a bit of mending on it prior to sending it to her. The skirt is so pretty.  I like the fabric and its little tiny dots.  I am pretty sure the dress is from the 1950’s.

The hat I have on in these pictures is vintage inspired.  I bought it from a street vendor several years ago.

We have had lots of snow and cold weather the past week. I tried to take the photos of me in this dress awhile back but it was too cold in my apartment, so I did the bulky sweater post instead. Last night I took a lovely, peaceful walk in the snow while headed to a friend’s housewarming party. By the time I walked home it was starting to freeze in patches on the sidewalks. Oh, the adventures of winter. I enjoy the snow and the chill as long as it doesn’t get too cold (down to zero or below) for too long. I hope you are enjoying winter and not getting too cold!

 

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All material written and photos taken by: © Marilyn Lavender, 2014.  “All Rights Reserved.”